Prepare for a thoughtful conversation with the people you may ask to care for your children.
Prepare for a thoughtful guardian conversation.
Explore the practical questions before asking someone to care for your children. Use general notes to prepare for a family conversation and an attorney appointment.
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What matters most in your children’s daily care?
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Think about routines, education, cultural or religious traditions, sibling relationships, and connections with extended family.
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Who could provide that care?
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Consider willingness, health, location, household circumstances, and the relationship your children already have with each person.
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Have you asked about willingness and practical concerns?
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Discuss expectations openly. Make room for questions about housing, time, work, and the support that would be available.
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Have you considered a backup person?
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Think through who you would want to discuss if your first choice could not take on the role.
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Who would help manage money for your children?
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Prepare questions about financial support and whether the person managing property should be different from the person providing daily care.
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What needs to be discussed with an attorney?
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Ask how to document your wishes under applicable law and when to review them. This conversation worksheet does not appoint a guardian.
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This worksheet organizes a conversation. It does not create or change a will, guardian nomination, beneficiary designation, or other legal document. A qualified attorney can advise on your circumstances and state law.